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03 March 2015

Safia & Rahim - Life is Better in Flip-Flops - Ismaili Wedding Rituals in Diani, Kenya

 My first wedding of 2015 is a wonderful adventure by the Indian Ocean, in Mombasa, Kenya. It begins in a rather classic way: our bus loses the spare wheel right on departure from MOI International airport:
 Not to worry. The wheel is quickly recovered in a collective effort:
 Nothing can stop us now:
 Except a flat tire. Good thing we didn't leave the spare at the airport:
 But we're literally only 100m away from the hotel's gate, so we finish strong, on foot:
 Swahili Beach resort is waiting for us in a festive way:

 After continent hopping and 6 different flights, this is exactly what I want to see ... right before I close my eyes for a few hours:
 Next day, Safia is getting her henna done:
It's a 'not to be missed' opportunity for the future bride to be pampered like royalty:



 Even nature showers her with love:

 The following day, families and friends come together for the Pithi ceremony:

 The bar is open:
 Much to everyone's delight:

 We have everything we need for this afternoon:
 The Mandvo is a safety ritual. Four maternal uncles of the bride-to-be bring one pineapple each:

  And place them in the four corners of the house, with the specific purpose of preventing the evil from entering:
 Now, that the area is secured, Safia can step in:

 The Ponkwa and Pithi are mixed together for a concentrate dose of blessings:


 For added enjoyment, both families perform the pithi on Safia and Rahim simultaneously:





 This is when we almost witness a different show:

 Nothing says 'welcome to the family' like a raw egg broken on top of your head by your future sister in law:
 For a moment I feel like I'm watching Iron Chef:
Any recipe is much tastier with eggs:
And the plus of healthy protein is just invaluable.
An old tradition, the marinating sauce, with secret ingredients, tenderizes and gives the best of flavours:
There may be some side effects, though:

For better or worse (taste), Safia will always be there for Rahim from here on:
Now this sign makes a lot of sense for everyone:
After a shower and a fresh change of clothes, the evening finds the couple excited as ever:
And ready to party by the Indian Ocean:
I have only one word to say about the venue for the Mehndi party - WOW:
There's a pair of dancing shoes for every guest, with compliments from the generous couple:

Dance the night away!















Tomorrow is the big day, so we're gonna get some rest in the night ocean breeze.
love.party.more.cosmin

6 comments:

  1. very colorful and classic

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  2. Thank you for having me there! It was absolutely a beautiful wedding!!

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  3. Thank you Lidia and Cosmin, you two are so gifted and talented! We are so lucky that we had the both of you to capture these special moments for us, I could look at these pictures all day! :)

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    1. You're very kind, Safia!
      Thank you so much for inviting us to be a part of your wonderful wedding celebration!

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