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19 July 2011

How Punam Helped Amit Ditch Those Losers - Hindu Wedding in Calgary

It all starts when Punam receives a beautiful love letter from Amit:

 Actually, the day starts a little earlier, with Punam getting in wedding mode:
 Ioana is in "mirror pictures" phase:
 And she's enjoying every second of it:
 She even finds one in the car:
 Meanwhile, I spend time with Amit and his coconut, which was custom designed by Punam:
 The best man is helping with the shoes:
 And his little nieces are helping with the relaxation. I'm not sure how those traditional devices work, but it looks like this:
 We are so close to have royal guests:
 Known as the 'Jaan-Samaiya' is the part where the grooms's family and friends arrive at the wedding hall. As always, there's singing and dancing:

 A young girl from the bride's family carries a kalash and coconut:
 She applies tilak - red vermillion powder - and welcomes Amit:
  Var Ponkhwanu - Punam's mother performs a ceremony at the entrance to the hall to welcome Amit and his family:
 Commonwealth Conference Centre:
 The groom has to take his shoes off before stepping in the mandap. That's when the battle of the shoes begins:
Amit doesn't seem to care too much about that, as he's enjoying the barefoot experience:
 The Antarpat represents traditional barriers and is placed in front of him, in anticipation of the arrival of his soon to be wife:
 There may be the game playing on the other side of the antarpat, because Amit is really focused on something:
 When the veil is lowered, the couple sees each other for the first time as bride and groom:
 Jaimala - flower garlands are exchanged to signify their acceptance of each other as life long partners:
 Kanya Daan & Hasta Melap - a part of this ritual dictates that the bride's parents fast until after Kanya Daan is completed:
 They give their consent and blessings. In Hindu tradition, the offering of a daughter in marriage is the greatest gift parents can give:
 It's always a pleasure to work with Pundit Harishankar Dabral:
 He makes sure I have enough space to take pictures the way I know:

 Shila-Rohan - Amit helps Punam place her right foot on a rock:
 This action symbolizes a request for firm support in their lives together. True story!
 Sapta Padi - "Take this fifth step with me towards progeny":
 Vidai - tears of joy and sorrow wet the floor while Punam is saying goodbye to her family and friends:
 Friends that don't want to let her leave before a ransom is paid. In India, this would probably be a good price, but here the girls are not impressed:
 We're back at the groom's house - in this case The Four Points hotel - and I'm clueless again about the traditions. The newly weds have to step and break 2 clay pots on their way in:
 Smashing success for Amit, who looks like he's done this before:
 He already shows his love and devotion to his new wife by helping her:
 I've seen this game before. The groom's mom throws a ring and other small items in a big bowl of milk and the newly weds have to find it:
 Punam is at the top of her game:
 Amit wins one round, too and all his relatives are happy for him, because this means he might have a chance to wear the pants in his new family:
 I've also seen this one before, but I still don't know what it is. Among lots of other things, the bride has a red string around her wrist and her husband has to untie it before the reception:
 Lord Ganesha - the remover of all obstacles - is helping him with the task:
 Finally, all the rituals are done and we drive to downtown Calgary for a few shots:







 The reception follows soon, so we're back at the hall:



 Speeches:
 Always entertaining:



 The newly weds' turn:
 A much acclaimed part of their speech:
 First dance:
 Congratulations, Punam & Amit! Thank you so much for inviting us to your celebration in Calgary!
love.more.cosmin

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